If we take a moment to reflect upon the sands of time of our life, we will notice there is a presence to us … A being~ness to who we are, that remains consistent in it’s spark, no matter what age we are, what our appearance is, or where in the world we are. This […]
Many moons ago, the word Ritual for me personally repelled me. It felt tied up with my aversion to religion. And my stubborn nature in “having to do” and totally against my wild desire for spontaneous. I notice also in the “everyday couple” not seeking a Tantric Way particularly but a richer depth of connection […]
We can all feel resistance. Sometimes of course this resistance may be an old method of […]
Reflection~ Surrender, can be such a loaded and misunderstood […]
Reflection ~ How do you hold YOU? An essential ingredient to self love, self responsibility, maturity, relationship with self and therefore in reflection our relationship with others, is how we […]
We have been given this belief that we DO life … we DO Sex … we DO love. We make life and love happen. This idea of us being the DO-ing is an exhausting performance. When we get of the way, out of believing we make our life happen, we completely surrender with grace and […]
In the womb without doubt, without logic, without a care , we have an absolute trust in the breath … our needs being met … and the organic momentum of life. When we sleep … we trust without taking a pause, that we will breath, that life will keep holding us. We have these moments […]
We have grown into this nasty habit of meeting the world around us, people… our loved ones … through our mind and all it’s labels. An adult picks up a pebble. He has already decided he knows the pebble. It’s hard. It’s grey. It comes from the beach. An ordinary pebble amongst a thousand other […]
I began this Tantric Tip with “What is the urgency?” But as I typed it seemed organically to change itself to “Who is the urgency?” As I walked the dogs this morning I noticed how they met every smell, every sound, every person on the way. They were not focused on where we […]
I have found myself in the past couple of weeks in a strange gap. I felt no dark, no light, no joy. Just a gap of neither here nor there. I guess as I write to you, it just […]
