The inner Alchemy: Meeting sexual trauma

The Inner Alchemy offers us a powerful invitation to explore and rediscover ourselves beyond the limitations of sexual trauma thus bringing our experience of our sexual self, others and the world around us back into harmony.

Sexual Trauma is from the felt understanding of my own life experiences and the witnessing of others over 22 years, not sexual abuse.  
Both as a known experience are vastly different.
Sexual abuse, is when someone is forcing upon us  a non consensual  violating act.
Sexual Trauma as I have grown through my life has felt completely different. 
Sexual trauma is anything that is limiting our sexual self from being fully online and fully alive.
Life brings to us challenges to choose to learn and grow from or shrink small into.  When we have shrunk small into our grief, our loss, our pain, our anxiety, our fear … our sexual self becomes unavailable.
We can often focus on our sex life as the difficulty, as it presents to us symptoms of lack of libido, lack of sexual desire, and various physical symptoms depending upon our gender.  

However, although that is where we are focused, the underlying trauma may be:

Our grieving of a partner or loved one through death, end of relationship/ divorce. 
An overload of stress and lack of balance in our lives. 
A belief that we are not sexually attractive or desired. 
A belief we are bad/sinful if we allow ourselves pleasure. 
Illness such as cancer. 
Physical body limitations.  
The menopause.  
Not feeling we belong in the body we were born into.
Unsettling life change.
Feelings of failure and lack.
Dismissing oneself as a sexual, sensual, creative being.
Religion has a huge traumatic effect on our sexuality.  

The Inner Alchemy creates space for:

Whole body sacred touch to establish a felt sense of whole sensual body and sexual being, rather than “body parts for sex and body parts not for sex”. 
Deep body listening to the traumas being held and therefore restricting your sexual self.
Soothing of the nervous system.
Awareness of self limiting beliefs.
The releasing and dissolving of any held trauma within the tissues, muscles, Cellular memory and bones of the body.
Teachings and sessions individualised to you, so you are feel empowered to take our work together into your life and relationships.
Any life situation that has limited our most alive self and orgasmic potential physically and energetically.
The Inner Alchemy establishes a new felt knowing of our sexual self free from the limitations that our trauma is imposing upon us.
It settle us down and in so we may soften home into our bodies, feel at ease in our sexual energy and allow our full vibrancy once more to express itself safely and joyfully in the world, re-connecting firstly to self and then to others.
Within the process of Inner Alchemy you are the happening.  
It is essential that everything shared between us is a felt body experience and integrated, to ground the realignment into your life as a new reality.   
This is ensured by offering new suggestions and simple methods to play with in between your time with me.

As an intuitive body/mind medicine the following symptoms have been supported :

How the sessions work:

The foundational six sessions are in the inner journey, devoted to and focused on you as an individual. 

Supporting you to:

–  Come home to the physical sense and sensual aliveness of your body.

– Gently meet, listen to and release unhealthy patterns, beliefs or trauma held in your cellular memory, related to your body and sex.

– Explore your sexual self in new self honouring ways.

– Know your sexual self and how that wishes to express, move and play through you.

– Establish a strong loving relationship with body, breath and the present moment.  Expand your capacity for pleasure, love and joy in and beyond the bedroom.

The outer journey is a further six sessions of exploring how we may relate with other and the world we live in.

The outer journey supports you with:

 – Sharing the sensual you through touch, taste, smell and sound.

 – Exploring boundaries and the voice to respect them.

 – Integrating love and sex into your intimate relationships.

I do ask that you check in with yourself that you are willing to devote the time and financial commitment to create the changes you are seeking.  And that to receive the full benefits of your journey that you are able to commit to the full 12 week journey. 

An authentic  journey will alter you and your life ❤️

Is This For You?

Yes! If …

You are unable to feel your body and life as a source of pleasure and sensuality.

You fear intimacy, touch and or have past sexual experiences that need rewiring.

You know that you just cannot keep going around in unfulfilling circles in life anymore.

You are ready for a life changing journey.

This is not for you if …

Not able to commit to a process and are seeking a quick fix patch up.

Not open to huge transitions in how you feel and your life.

Not wanting to change and to keep your story.

Wanting “the work” to be done for you or to you, as a form of rescue rather than empowerment.

Do not feel your life is worthy of the time or financial commitment to you.

A  20% deposit is required upon booking.  The remaining fees are due on the day of our first meeting.  

If you require a payment plan please ask, all fees will need to be paid before journey begins.

Please read terms and conditions here.

I strongly advise that you ensure you can commit financially to your Sexual Healing.  Making an investment into the process of connecting with your sexuality and sensuality creates changes in the WHOLE of your life.  .

Your investment:

The full journey is created through 12 sessions.  This leaves you in a space of a new sexual wholeness and the tools to create a sustainable lifestyle.
This of course has to be a felt choice and one you feel you can devote yourself fully to.
You may wish to go at a slower pace than 12 weekly sessions, blocks of  6 are also available.
All sessions are inclusive of audio support with me in between sessions.

The fees of 6 weekly sessions: £1560

The fees of 12 weekly sessions: £2995

How To Book:

On receiving your enquiry, I will then invite you to a casual chat/consultation by phone before committing to your booking so that you may ensure you feel at ease with me.  Together we can explore any questions you may have and soften any concerns.

Intensives are available for those travelling a distance or from abroad. 

For days and times of availability, payment terms and professional boundaries, please ensure you read my  etiquette here.

Choosing the right Therapist for you is essential and ensures both parties are coming from the same intentions. All journeys in life require strong beginnings of courage, love honour and trust.

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