It is funny that even when we are given moments to relax, we do not allow ourselves to completely immerse into the warm pool of nothingness that “relax” invites us into. ![](https://prestofox.app/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/daydreaming.jpg)
We may feel guilt that surely we ought to be doing something.
That maybe we are wasting time or going against the rules … We may feel an awkwardness in our body, our thoughts.
Yet in relax … something is do-ing.
It is just not us, in control of that do-ing.
A greater body intelligence happens when it is given time and space to.
Energy moves within us naturally … Life happens for us.
Just as life still breathes us, while we sleep.
Feeling the need to do … to control … to be active, does not give our body a chance to move us … To expand beyond our controlling ways or ideals.
We restrict and confine our sexuality, our sexual experiences, our inspirations, our lives to “smaller than”
Even in our activity, there can be a “relax” … just watch how children seem to be doing but how relaxed they are in body, movement, breath. You can see it on their little face, feel that ease around them.
I encourage you to play with this Tantric life method.
Enjoy how “relax” feels in your skin, in your sex, in your life