Many moons ago, the word Ritual for me personally repelled me. It felt tied up with my aversion to religion. And my stubborn nature in “having to do” and totally against my wild desire for spontaneous. I notice also in the “everyday couple” not seeking a Tantric Way particularly but a richer depth of connection […]
We can all feel resistance. Sometimes of course this resistance may be an old method of […]
Reflection~ Surrender, can be such a loaded and misunderstood […]
Have you ever truly watched a child’s approach to life? How they explore themselves, their environment… life with a sense of curiosity. With this approach every experience is original. Every experience is new, fresh, rich. Every experience expands … for this […]
We have been given this belief that we DO life … we DO Sex … we DO love. We make life and love happen. This idea of us being the DO-ing is an exhausting performance. When we get of the way, out of believing we make our life happen, we completely surrender with grace and […]
In the womb without doubt, without logic, without a care , we have an absolute trust in the breath … our needs being met … and the organic momentum of life. When we sleep … we trust without taking a pause, that we will breath, that life will keep holding us. We have these moments […]
My three boys were all most wonderfully home for Sunday brunch … two of them are experiencing feeling stuck and it was obvious as they spoke how torn they feel. My eldest spoke up and said to them both “Don’t tell me what you think you should do. Tell me what you want to do.” The […]
We have grown into this nasty habit of meeting the world around us, people… our loved ones … through our mind and all it’s labels. An adult picks up a pebble. He has already decided he knows the pebble. It’s hard. It’s grey. It comes from the beach. An ordinary pebble amongst a thousand other […]
I have found myself in the past couple of weeks in a strange gap. I felt no dark, no light, no joy. Just a gap of neither here nor there. I guess as I write to you, it just […]
It is funny that even when we are given moments to relax, we do not allow ourselves to completely immerse into the warm pool of nothingness that “relax” invites us into. We may feel guilt that surely we ought to be doing something. That maybe we are wasting time or going against […]
