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tantra in your pocket

Do you crave intimacy, to be truly known and seen, yet hide amongst the wall flowers?

Do you deeply long to feel safe in your skin, your bones, your sexuality?

Do you hunger for something more?

Do you have a gnawing knowing that there is more to love and sex than your experience?

Are you stuck?  Stuck in resistance to body, sex and love.

Have you come to feeling, something has got to change.   Yet not quite sure what that allusive something is?

What if the answer, the thing that needs to change is simplicity in its most innocent form.

What if together we review the density of life with new eyes?  And attend to wounds with a gentle hands and tender touch.

It may seem a ludicrous statement but I believe sex is the roots of all life.  Including  everything wonky and upside down.  Everything that is not working. Everything that is dull and no longer alive. Everything that is stuck.

And the certainly, the root of the endless search of what we deem missing.

Why?

Because when we unravel our challenges in life and trace that thread back to the core, we find our sexuality is not fully alive. 

 We have through trauma, education and culture squashed and tamed it … And so our money, our relationships, our life cannot thrive.

And because, it is all that you are. 

 A sexual being.

We just have forgotten how to resource ourselves from this infinite pool of aliveness within, that can when unrestricted from sexual trauma and poor relationships with self and our body, change our world to a wonderous experience of life. 

When we reconnect with that sensual and sexual being-ness, past our lived traumas, past our fears of intimacy, past the mechanics of sex, past our history of messy relationships and back to its innocence.  We discover our essential sexual nature knows how to trust, connect, create. Be alive.  Belong.

I am here to help you remember

I am here to help you remember the safety and pleasures of bones and flesh, of breath and your sex.

I am here to support you in the creation of your own loving lifestyle, that builds strong ground for you to thrive upon. In all areas of your life.

To surrender and immerse into:

A felt sense of belonging and safety in your own skin and bones, that enables you to reach out to others and explore in the world.

A real and raw, compassionate relationship with yourself.

A fulfilling and orgasmic life.

Rich intimacy with self and others.

Full sexual and creative freedom.

The voice to mean your “no” and mean your “yes.”

Your fullest capacity for pleasure.

Tantra in your pocket:

Tantra in your pocket is a 1:1 learning experience created to your individual journey of body, love and sex, enabling you to life live from a felt sense of  self assured fullness, that expresses playfully in the world around you.
Together we will ensure all teachings become for you a sustainable lifestyle.

The Full Pocket Experience

Introductory 30 minute call.

Weekly 60 minute zoom teachings.
Unlimited support, via chat app.
£549 per month.
A minimum commitment of three months is required.

So who am I?

Hi, my name is Michelle. I will be in your pocket, as your guide, to the fullest expression of you in body, love and sex, so you may feel yourself as safe, and worthy of exploring life in all its abundant pleasure.
I am so delighted you have found this page.  I celebrate your courageous heart.  Yes, the one that has bought you this far through life’s often tricky waters.  
How amazing to know your are ready to reclaim all that you deliciously are!
I think it is important I share with you a snippet of where I have grown from.  In  2000 I was rudely woken up to my own messy life and the trail of destruction I had created in playing out the events of my childhood on a loop of poor self worth, self sabotage and abusive relationships.  It was easy for me to love and f**king hard for me to be loved. 
 Sex and love were a conflicting internal experience and one tainted with shame, fear and distrust.  And my poor body had had enough of my hateful self punishing ways.

To attend to all the wounds and limitations around my body and sex was my greatest challenge, I will not paint it as either easy of fluffy.  It’s grounding REAL and often down on your knees RAW.  

But it opened the doorways to my full potential and freedom!  And I would do it all again, just to know myself beyond all I “thought” I was. 

22 years of self exploration and working with others, to alchemise their trauma, crippling fear and sexual anxieties, resistance to their own skin and bones, touch, intimacy and relationships.  
A distrust of kindness and life. 
An awkwardness in movement and pleasure.  Habitual self sabotage, unloving beliefs, numbness and emotional disempowerment.  
A knowing that there is more with a  strong wanting of more but the habitual temptations to stay safe and small,always conquering.

I am the creator of Authentic Roots and founder of sacred tantric touch.  
I am a Tantric bodyworker and teacher, and a sexual trauma alchemist through lived experience. Qualified by various bits of paper.  But above all, the honest and humble tale of my way home to the sacredness of who I am, in body, love and sex.  

And so my darling,  it is because of deeply knowing the dark days and messy bits, the grief and shame this journey can churn up and spit out …  I know I can fully meet you in with a compassionate heart.
And as for the joys and celebrations … of which there are many, I will be whopping for you the loudest!

All my love

M x 

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Testimonials

 

“Michelle’s calm, gentle teaching has helped me to stop seeing my body
as the enemy, and to reintegrate my mind and body. The classes have
been a joy to participate in and a highlight of my week.”

Birgit

“I was very nervous before my first session & not sure how safe I’d be but that all evaporated as soon as I met Michelle. Having survived sexual abuse in childhood & young adulthood, I’d always felt a sense of shame about my body & was unable to feel safe within it.
Michelle’s loving & accepting manner helped me to start to leave the past behind. During my yoni massage, she enabled me to feel safe, protected & accepted & I was able to allow painful emotions to be expressed & allow the shame that I’d held around sexuality & pleasure to drop away. I am now left with more of a sense of ownership around my own body, I feel safer within it & overall I feel lighter, more grounded & with a newly found sensitivity & sense of aliveness that I can’t remember ever feeling before. Thank you so much Michelle.”

Jules